Hurt Feelings Journal

The Sex Shop in Paris

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The funny thing was, there was nothing particularly shocking about what I was doing. I was just browsing the lingerie section, looking at things I could have easily been looking...
In Defence of “Good Girl”

In Defence of “Good Girl”

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There is a particular kind of internet rage-bait that arrives fully formed, and tells you that something you have been saying your entire life is actually a tool of the...
TAKE A QUIZ!

TAKE A QUIZ!

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Either way, the real advice is: just buy a few. Nobody said you had to pick one. Be Matcha one day and Brat the next. You contain multitudes, and now...
Is praise kink the new dirty talk?

Is praise kink the new dirty talk?

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Dirty talk used to be about saying the most outrageous thing you could think of. Now, we collectively melt over two simple words: "Good girl." So, what changed? Maybe praise...
BDSM, kink, fetish… and the cute paddle in your cart

BDSM, kink, fetish… and the cute paddle in your cart

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Let's break down the difference between BDSM, kink, and fetish, and clear up the idea that buying a cute paddle automatically means you’ve “become” anything in particular. You can go...
How to Create a Ritual at Home (That Doesn’t Take Itself Too Seriously)

How to Create a Ritual at Home (That Doesn’t Take Itself Too Seriously)

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TLDR: you don’t need incense, linen robes, or a personality transplant to create a ritual. The whole point is that the magic isn’t in a “perfect setup.” It’s in you...
Think of it less like a punishment and more like a practice.

Think of it less like a punishment and more like a practice.

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We all have objects that make ordinary moments feel a little more intentional. This is about ritual, attention, and why a paddle might belong in the same category as your...
About surrender, structure, decision fatigue, softness, trust, etc.

About surrender, structure, decision fatigue, softness, trust, etc.

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A soft little spiral about why being told “come here, sit down, drink water” suddenly feels like the height of romance.
The feminine urge to collect tiny, dangerous objects!

The feminine urge to collect tiny, dangerous objects!

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A love letter to tiny, beautiful objects with naughty energy. The strange comfort of surrounding yourself with things that feel like alternate versions of your personality. Part decor, part emotional...
Spanking Secretly Teaching You Emotional Intelligence!

Spanking Secretly Teaching You Emotional Intelligence!

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There’s something unexpectedly real about what consensual impact play teaches us. And once you realise that, you might start wondering whether this is actually about control at all… or something...